Welcome!
My Life
From Grade 3 to 12, I was verbally, emotionally and physically bullied. I couldn’t understand why. What was wrong with me? Why do people hate me?
I certainly felt like I wasn’t good enough. I must be ugly. I must be stupid. Something surely must be wrong with me!
It took a good part of my lifetime to solve this mystery.
The truth is nothing was wrong with me! They are the ones who have/had the “problem”. They are the ones who by putting me down were trying to lift themselves up and be somebody in their own eyes. It’s sad, because that isn’t the way to go about achieving that and they don’t realize the harm they are doing to others.
I have experienced almost everything in life. I have been in the black abyss of depression and filled with suicidal thoughts, anger, rage, betrayal, divorce, loss of my business and the loss of 2 children still in the womb.
More importantly, I’ve learned valuable lessons that change the story behind the events in my life. Instead of negative, disempowering stories I’ve turned them to uplifting, empowering stories. What a difference this makes in how I feel and in how I see the world through my eyes.
I’ve learned that Happiness isn’t something “out there” to be chased, but is really something that has been inside of us all along and has been waiting to be unleashed and it is unlimited in supply.
I’ve learned that it doesn’t serve me to be living in the past or the future at the expense of the Present Moment. Now is all there ever is. We can not change the past, except for the fact we can change our perception of it and we can not truly see the future. It’s an illusion! Goals are OK, but it’s what we do now in the Present Moment that will truly shape our future.
I’ve learned that “Love” is a shadow of what Unconditional Love is. And Unconditional Love is what we are at our Core Being and the first person we should be loving unconditionally is ourselves. In fact, if we truly love ourselves unconditionally we will find we really do not have a need for someone else’s love. That’s how total and complete unconditional love is. But our Unconditional Love is so abundant it’s only natural that we share it with the whole universe.
I’ve learned that my darkest hours have become great treasures of grace, beauty and wisdom
I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE! That’s a huge part of who I am.
Life is too short not to be able to live it to our highest potential. Sometimes the smallest change can make a huge difference in a person’s life. Other times, it’s a work in progress with life getting better and better with each day.
My Mission
My mission is to work with others who just need help to turn their life around. We can often realize we have a challenge, but we just don’t have the tools or the knowledge to make the necessary changes. Nothing in life ever came with a manual with how to do it successfully so often it’s trial and error and it can become very frustrating, stressful and take us in a direction we don’t want to be going in.
In 2011, I received my training with Robbins Madanes Training and have been helping people ever since. You are welcome to a free consult to see if I may be of service to you.
If you ever need a hand or have any questions, feel free to leave them below and I will be more than happy to help you out.
All the best,
Mel Waller
https://melwaller.com/